Comments on: Turning a Friendship Into Something More http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/ Better than Your Average Dating and Relationship Websites Tue, 13 Jul 2010 04:09:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Alex Strandberg http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/comment-page-1/#comment-1429 Alex Strandberg Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:11:09 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=107#comment-1429 I think it's up to the individual who they want to marry. They may have gone to a good college, parents come from money etc. but odds are it won't make you happy. Happiness and love is not determined by statistics and convenience. I understand your family will probably hate you, if not kick you out of the family completely, but that's the choice you will have to make. Freedom or family? Dying in fear or living with courage? Two choices equal with benefits and consequences. Whatever you choose, understand that it is you who ultimately makes the choice. With that said, I would never enter into a situation that didn't allow me to have a say in the matter. Parents who arrange marriages are more like prison guards in a facility than people looking out for your best interest. They tell you when to eat, what to do and who to marry. I think it’s up to the individual who they want to marry. They may have gone to a good college, parents come from money etc. but odds are it won’t make you happy. Happiness and love is not determined by statistics and convenience.

I understand your family will probably hate you, if not kick you out of the family completely, but that’s the choice you will have to make. Freedom or family? Dying in fear or living with courage? Two choices equal with benefits and consequences. Whatever you choose, understand that it is you who ultimately makes the choice.

With that said, I would never enter into a situation that didn’t allow me to have a say in the matter. Parents who arrange marriages are more like prison guards in a facility than people looking out for your best interest. They tell you when to eat, what to do and who to marry.

]]> By: Ayman http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/comment-page-1/#comment-1301 Ayman Sun, 31 May 2009 06:47:45 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=107#comment-1301 I just stumbled across your blog doing a google search on inner game and found it very interesting and have lots of good advice. Things I didn't understand before suddenly make sense now I am really interested to know what your opinion is on arranged marriages which is common in the Eastern Cultures. A decision not based on romance or emotion but practicality. Your parents choose based education, social background, etc as well as your interests. You know all the facts about the person but you don't get to know the person until after marriage. I just stumbled across your blog doing a google search on inner game and found it very interesting and have lots of good advice. Things I didn’t understand before suddenly make sense now

I am really interested to know what your opinion is on arranged marriages which is common in the Eastern Cultures. A decision not based on romance or emotion but practicality. Your parents choose based education, social background, etc as well as your interests. You know all the facts about the person but you don’t get to know the person until after marriage.

]]> By: Ryan http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/comment-page-1/#comment-562 Ryan Fri, 10 Apr 2009 00:22:50 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=107#comment-562 Haha alrighty, I feel better about moving on from this now. Thanks again for being straightforward, and keep on keepin' on with what you do, you're doing a great job. Haha alrighty, I feel better about moving on from this now. Thanks again for being straightforward, and keep on keepin’ on with what you do, you’re doing a great job.

]]> By: Alex Strandberg http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/comment-page-1/#comment-548 Alex Strandberg Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:16:04 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=107#comment-548 Broseph? haha nice. There are no real misunderstandings when it comes to attraction. The fact that you are wondering if it's possible if you can turn it into a yes gives me a huge indication as to why you are a no. Simply put, you care and are attached to this a girl a little too much. "Whether she comes, stays, lays or prays your toes are still tappin"-Fast Times at Fast Times at Ridgemont High. This is a good belief or frame to adapt. No matter what she does or chooses you are still ok with or without her. If there is a misunderstanding and you are only friends that's ok. If there is no misunderstanding and she wants to fuck your brains out that's ok too. Either way your toes are still tapping. Broseph? haha nice. There are no real misunderstandings when it comes to attraction. The fact that you are wondering if it’s possible if you can turn it into a yes gives me a huge indication as to why you are a no. Simply put, you care and are attached to this a girl a little too much.

“Whether she comes, stays, lays or prays your toes are still tappin”-Fast Times at Fast Times at Ridgemont High. This is a good belief or frame to adapt. No matter what she does or chooses you are still ok with or without her. If there is a misunderstanding and you are only friends that’s ok. If there is no misunderstanding and she wants to fuck your brains out that’s ok too. Either way your toes are still tapping.

]]> By: Cassidy http://innergamereframe.com/turning-a-friendship-into-something-more/comment-page-1/#comment-521 Cassidy Sun, 05 Apr 2009 15:14:29 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=107#comment-521 How do you come up with this stuff. This is great. How do you come up with this stuff. This is great.

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