Comments on: The Virgin Diaries http://innergamereframe.com/the-virgin-diaries/ Better than Your Average Dating and Relationship Websites Tue, 13 Jul 2010 04:09:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: "Dan" http://innergamereframe.com/the-virgin-diaries/comment-page-1/#comment-212 "Dan" Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:50:30 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=132#comment-212 I know the feeling. I put way too much pressure on myself to perform and I've had a few cases of "performance anxiety" because of this (three times actually, albeit not sober during any). However, I feel like I'm starting to accept myself (I'm only 18 after all) - and it's not like I have <i>no</i> success with women anyway. It's just like leading a woman to bed is still almost uncharted territory and it's something I need to learn. I know the feeling. I put way too much pressure on myself to perform and I’ve had a few cases of “performance anxiety” because of this (three times actually, albeit not sober during any). However, I feel like I’m starting to accept myself (I’m only 18 after all) – and it’s not like I have no success with women anyway. It’s just like leading a woman to bed is still almost uncharted territory and it’s something I need to learn.

]]> By: Michael http://innergamereframe.com/the-virgin-diaries/comment-page-1/#comment-202 Michael Wed, 21 Jan 2009 01:11:23 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=132#comment-202 :) Thanks for this post, Alex. I feel like I know how to do everything in relationships and I find flaws in my friend's relationships like I'm superior to them lol. I am completely that qualifying virgin that un-qualifies everyone, and I shut down when there is an opportunity for that kind of connection. My ego doesn't want me to get laid, and sometimes I don't even know if I do. I think the biggest fears are that things will be awkward after i.e. next day or week, and what will happen afterwards relationship-wise. Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated, Michael :) Thanks for this post, Alex.

I feel like I know how to do everything in relationships and I find flaws in my friend’s relationships like I’m superior to them lol. I am completely that qualifying virgin that un-qualifies everyone, and I shut down when there is an opportunity for that kind of connection.

My ego doesn’t want me to get laid, and sometimes I don’t even know if I do. I think the biggest fears are that things will be awkward after i.e. next day or week, and what will happen afterwards relationship-wise.

Any thoughts or advice would be appreciated,
Michael

]]> By: Alex Strandberg http://innergamereframe.com/the-virgin-diaries/comment-page-1/#comment-201 Alex Strandberg Mon, 19 Jan 2009 17:58:30 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=132#comment-201 @Greg: Don't hope for the best create the best for yourself. You know your issues so now you can take action in getting over them. Thanks for the love. Keep me updated about your progress @Greg: Don’t hope for the best create the best for yourself. You know your issues so now you can take action in getting over them. Thanks for the love. Keep me updated about your progress

]]> By: Greg http://innergamereframe.com/the-virgin-diaries/comment-page-1/#comment-197 Greg Mon, 19 Jan 2009 03:14:30 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=132#comment-197 You hit the nail on the head Alex. Pretty much everything you said describes me exactly. I've been starting to come to the same conclusion that you have, so hopefully I can improve my situation in the near future. Thanks for putting my thoughts into words. You hit the nail on the head Alex. Pretty much everything you said describes me exactly. I’ve been starting to come to the same conclusion that you have, so hopefully I can improve my situation in the near future.
Thanks for putting my thoughts into words.

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