Comments on: Should you take her back when she’s cheated? http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-girl-who-cried-rape For Men who want to become naturally attractive to beautiful women Wed, 12 Oct 2011 09:44:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Alex Strandberg http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-3341 Alex Strandberg Tue, 13 Jul 2010 04:09:50 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=627#comment-3341 Just be glad Curt that it wasn't you that was getting married. Breaking a relationship off is a lot easier than a marriage. You could have been stuck with her for a long time. Just be glad Curt that it wasn’t you that was getting married. Breaking a relationship off is a lot easier than a marriage. You could have been stuck with her for a long time.

]]> By: Alex Strandberg http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-3340 Alex Strandberg Tue, 13 Jul 2010 04:07:53 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=627#comment-3340 Basically, love is a chemical addiction. When you like someone your body produces endorphins (happy chemicals). Spend more time with them and you will become hooked on these happy chemicals-an addict. Sounds cold and not much like the Disney story of what love is but that's about it. When you break up you are no longer getting your fix (happy chemicals) and go through withdrawal. It takes time to kick the habit for good and for the withdrawal to go away. If you have a higher self esteem you will have more love for yourself and less dependency on external love. This is why it's easier for people with high self esteem to get over ended relationships quicker. Seeing her place or places that remind you of her isn't good for your recovery. But there's nothing you can do about that. Is it possible to drive in another direction to get to your place? If not, just discipline yourself not to look at her apartment (to check to see if she's there) when you drive by. Congrats on the strength. Be proud of yourself for that. Any time you get down, just think of what an accomplishment that is and what it took for you to do it. Alex Basically, love is a chemical addiction. When you like someone your body produces endorphins (happy chemicals). Spend more time with them and you will become hooked on these happy chemicals-an addict. Sounds cold and not much like the Disney story of what love is but that’s about it.

When you break up you are no longer getting your fix (happy chemicals) and go through withdrawal. It takes time to kick the habit for good and for the withdrawal to go away.

If you have a higher self esteem you will have more love for yourself and less dependency on external love. This is why it’s easier for people with high self esteem to get over ended relationships quicker.

Seeing her place or places that remind you of her isn’t good for your recovery. But there’s nothing you can do about that. Is it possible to drive in another direction to get to your place? If not, just discipline yourself not to look at her apartment (to check to see if she’s there) when you drive by.

Congrats on the strength. Be proud of yourself for that. Any time you get down, just think of what an accomplishment that is and what it took for you to do it.

Alex

]]> By: Aaron http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-3295 Aaron Tue, 29 Jun 2010 21:40:42 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=627#comment-3295 I dated this woman for about a year. Things started to turn sour and I finally had the strength to break it off with her. The relationship ended June 10th, 2010. It was definitely for the best. She's not good enough for me. My mistake was holding on to the wrong girl six weeks longer than I should have. My question is she lives in the same apartment complex as me and every time I drive by her place I either see her car parked there or I don't. It's in my face and I'm having a little trouble getting passed it. My mindset now is 'who cares what she's doing, that's her problem. I'm a great guy.' It's been about 3 weeks now, will it just take time or is there anything else I could tell myself. Thank you, Aaron. I dated this woman for about a year. Things started to turn sour and I finally had the strength to break it off with her. The relationship ended June 10th, 2010. It was definitely for the best. She’s not good enough for me. My mistake was holding on to the wrong girl six weeks longer than I should have. My question is she lives in the same apartment complex as me and every time I drive by her place I either see her car parked there or I don’t. It’s in my face and I’m having a little trouble getting passed it. My mindset now is ‘who cares what she’s doing, that’s her problem. I’m a great guy.’ It’s been about 3 weeks now, will it just take time or is there anything else I could tell myself.

Thank you,
Aaron.

]]> By: Curt Warren http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-3253 Curt Warren Fri, 11 Jun 2010 12:37:08 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=627#comment-3253 <i>I was in a relationship for four years, and then she went to University and cheated. I was too blind to see the truth, I was totally in denial, and still chasing her like crazy. Then depression hit me – as my subconscious could see the truth, but I was consciously in denial. Then one day she turned around and said that she no longer had any feelings for me – my entire world collapsed. I did what you advised though – shut her out completely from that day – Facebook, email, photos, everything. I haven’t spoken to her since, it’s been just over a year now. I recently heard she’s getting married to a guy on her Uni course – the fool she cheated on me with. Good luck to him – I hope she doesn’t lose interest in him after the honeymoon period is over!</i> +1 I was in a relationship for four years, and then she went to University and cheated. I was too blind to see the truth, I was totally in denial, and still chasing her like crazy. Then depression hit me – as my subconscious could see the truth, but I was consciously in denial. Then one day she turned around and said that she no longer had any feelings for me – my entire world collapsed. I did what you advised though – shut her out completely from that day – Facebook, email, photos, everything. I haven’t spoken to her since, it’s been just over a year now. I recently heard she’s getting married to a guy on her Uni course – the fool she cheated on me with. Good luck to him – I hope she doesn’t lose interest in him after the honeymoon period is over!
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]]> By: francis http://innergamereframe.com/the-girl-who-cried-rape/comment-page-1/#comment-3017 francis Mon, 29 Mar 2010 17:21:51 +0000 http://innergamereframe.com/?p=627#comment-3017 you know...things like that has to happen in your life so you learn from it...somebody will break you so you become a better man..that was life its all about... you know…things like that has to happen in your life so you learn from it…somebody will break you so you become a better man..that was life its all about…

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