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	<title>Comments on: Getting Into State Just to Get The Girl</title>
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		<title>By: Beagle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beagle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m looking forward to them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to them.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Strandberg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Strandberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Tuplad: Sadly yes but thanks to the internet some men are wising up

@Beagle: Thanks. NLP can help a small amount but not a very good overall solution to not feeling enough. NLP goes through the mind which is the source of your problems. Having that voice inside of your head constantly arguing with you and telling you that you are worthless (not enough). The key is to get out of the mind. 

In the next couple of days I&#039;m going to post a couple of articles on how to be confident and feel like you are truly enough-check back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tuplad: Sadly yes but thanks to the internet some men are wising up</p>
<p>@Beagle: Thanks. NLP can help a small amount but not a very good overall solution to not feeling enough. NLP goes through the mind which is the source of your problems. Having that voice inside of your head constantly arguing with you and telling you that you are worthless (not enough). The key is to get out of the mind. </p>
<p>In the next couple of days I&#8217;m going to post a couple of articles on how to be confident and feel like you are truly enough-check back.</p>
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		<title>By: Richard T</title>
		<link>http://innergamereframe.com/getting-into-state-just-to-get-the-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-518</link>
		<dc:creator>Richard T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 23:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I want to learn more about online dating, can you help?</description>
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		<title>By: Tuplad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tuplad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome man! Sadly enough, there are loads of guys like this.</description>
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		<title>By: Beagle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beagle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 18:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex:  This is one of the best articles I have ever read.  (I hope you didn&#039;t mind.  I posted a link to it on the forum at Ask Dan and Jennifer.)  The first paragraph of that sounds like you know me personally.  The reality is, I still feel that way despite being successful by any objective criteria.  I think that feeling of &quot;not enough&quot; has sabotaged me countless times.  

I think you have very precisely diagnosed the problem.  Now, what is to be done about it?  I agree, the NLP state change stuff is inadequate.  What do you think is the long-term solution?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex:  This is one of the best articles I have ever read.  (I hope you didn&#8217;t mind.  I posted a link to it on the forum at Ask Dan and Jennifer.)  The first paragraph of that sounds like you know me personally.  The reality is, I still feel that way despite being successful by any objective criteria.  I think that feeling of &#8220;not enough&#8221; has sabotaged me countless times.  </p>
<p>I think you have very precisely diagnosed the problem.  Now, what is to be done about it?  I agree, the NLP state change stuff is inadequate.  What do you think is the long-term solution?</p>
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