Comments on: Dealing With Her Male “friends”

By: Alex Strandberg

Alex Strandberg — Fri, 23 Apr 2010 01:46:24 +0000

Yeah man, not everyone is trustworthy-sad but true. Just make sure to ignore the doubtful voice inside your head and look at the situation as objectively as possible

Good luck

By: Adam

Adam — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 18:12:38 +0000

Alex, Alex, I have just found myself in a situation like this. I don’t know my girlfriends new collage male friends and they don’t know me. My girlfriend always says that I sould trust her more, but I get damn irritated by her new friends…

By: Alex Strandberg

Alex Strandberg — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 17:45:17 +0000

Rob,

The key is to never argue with women because they are much better at it. You need to come from a place of not trying to convince her. It’s simply saying ‘hey, this is the way my relationships are going to be. If you like it cool. If not we can part ways”.

Now you aren’t saying that to be manipulative and use fear of lose to get her to do what you want. You say it in a matter of fact way kind of way and you give her the choice if she wants to have that kind of relationship or not.

By: rob

rob — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 17:11:22 +0000

“…Few find the strength and courage to say something to the girl which only ends up in an argument. Never argue with a women, she’s better at it. The argument doesn’t go as you plan and you only end up feeling guilty for something that doesn’t sit right with you.”

- that particular part of the article resonates with me & my personal experiences. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately, depends on the pov), I’m not one to shut up about it and I do say something about it and it ends up in an argument. Arguing with a woman is difficult, men use logic while women use emotion during an argument – you can’t make her see your pov regardless of how strong your argument is, even if you are right.