Wen I met him, on the first date he got me agift. I thanked him and said that is not necesery. I could see already why his ex had manipulated him so much, he trully asks for it.

He kept buying me gifts, so I would leave them in his house as I was feeling strange about it. I would offer to pay some of our meals etc, is the way I am, I like to share

Anyways, one day I decided to explain him that if I was a spoiled woman I would easily manipulate him, and that he is a total victim. I told him that he has to stop trying to make it all more exciting and interesting by buying them gifts and promicing stuff to them. I guess the more he would realize that he couldnt keep me the more he tried to impress me, heh with the wrong way.

Wen eventually I left him (for my own reasons) and I explained him that if he continues this way he will never be happy cos women will use him and he will always attrack the wrong kind of women.

So yes I agree absolutelly, men need to stop been such idiots. If she is a poor girl then I understand it, she may cant affort to pay for stuff, but either way, trying to hold a woman with gifts is so low, if u ask me. I guess some are desperate for either sex or a partner and some are too nice and blind.

I can defenitelly say a few more stories about men been manipulated by women, but no need, I think some of them trully dont wanna learn cos they ll repear the same mistake again and again, even if you tell them… like my other friend…James… oh dear. He just dont listen.

The age old question of who should pay on a date or in a relationship, the man or the woman? Most people would agree that the man should pay but this becomes a problem when the man pays too much. He opens up his wallet hoping that at the end of the nig…